I understand what an exceptional time this is right now. So many of us are struggling with the feelings of not living life as it was, and being oh, so mindful of what we do, how we do it and washing our hands above it all.
Many of us simply don’t know what to do. I get questions and calls from clients and potential clients about dating now, and how should they do it? What is safe? And should I wait?
You should not wait, and yes, you need to be cautious and safe and follow the instructions you have heard 500 times already.
I understand the fear, and I also understand the joy of working past that fear. I am living proof of that right now. You see, I manifested a man who actually came into my life. A man who is kind, smart, caring, capable of showing emotion as well as receiving love from me. Someone who is comfortable in his own skin; who is ready for a relationship and shows me how to have one through his support and patience. We found the trifecta in each other.
However, it’s not easy. I am used to being alone-alone in my space (well, at least with two standard poodles) and living my life on almost something I call auto-pilot. And even though I love my space, I want to share my space and life with another wonderful human. But this will take some adjustment (funny, my boyfriend is a chiropractor-the adjustment portion is a pun) and grace on my part to allow myself to feel and KNOW that things will work out as they should.
My message in this is simply to just be. Be afraid. Be fearless. Dream. Dream big. Imagine him or her. Imagine finding that person who understands you and respects you. Someone who you laugh with until you cry. Someone who meets you where you are. Who gives to you what you have always wanted and needed, even if it is hard and unfamiliar.
Let me help you find that person if you wish my assistance. I believe they are out there for you, just as you are for them.