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  As I look over the events of the last week sometimes, I’m mortified by what has happened. People saying the wrong thing, people doing the wrong thing and people so completely unaware that they are saying or doing the wrong thing boggles my mind. I’d like to give you an example of one from…[Read More]

Being a single 60’s lady, you can imagine that I’ve spoken to a few men in my day-both as a matchmaker and dating coach. I have asked many men what it is that they want, and I’ like to share it with you. My friend Louann Ward, a fellow matchmaker believes this: The desire of…[Read More]

While working with clients on writing their dating profiles, I find myself in a spot where I must hold back, hold my thoughts and feelings, and especially hold my tongue. Why? Because the person that my clients are looking for doesn’t exist. Yes. That’s right. He or she exists in a Disney movie, but not…[Read More]

I’m in the dating thick of things along with my clients. I am experiencing the very same things they are going through, and that makes me a great coach because I fully understand their mindset and do I dare say, “Struggle?” Yesterday I had a conversation with a man who seemed interesting. He wanted to…[Read More]

is Realtor.com equal to Match.com-only for single people?   Have you ever found yourself trolling through homes; imagining yourself in them-the parties you’d have, the life you’d build there with someone, and how blissful it could be? Isn’t this the same as a dating site? We let our imaginations run wild.  We dream about the…[Read More]

    The year has certainly been eventful, hasn’t it?  We live in an uncertain world full of challenges, opportunities for learning, and opportunities for growth. I don’t know about you, but I think I learned the most about myself in 2021 compared to any previous year. I will use these lessons in 2022.  However,…[Read More]

  Are you dating intentionally? I have a finely tuned method for dating, which I share with my date coaching clients. It’s all about intention when you represent yourself authentically.  This photo captured my interest today and I was lucky enough to shoot the shot. No more garbage. No more dates that truly will not…[Read More]

For those of you who are using online dating apps to date, what are you finding is the biggest hurdle that you were trying to get past?  Is it having a thoughtful, engaged response from someone?  Let me share an experience that I had on JDate. A little bit about this eligible bachelor (not sure…[Read More]