I get asked all the time why people are not responding to messages that people are sending through the dating apps. Do you wonder why, too? I believe I have some answers. People who aren’t paid subscribers can’t send messages that will be received from those who HAVE paid. So, if you want to play…[Read More]
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Tips for Men On Things to NEVER SAY on a phone call
For those of us going through the joys of online dating, you can concur that it’s not a job (well, it is!) but also an adventure. I’m in the thick of it right along with you. Trust me. And it’s not pretty. Let’s take a recent experience I had. Scheduled a call with a seemingly…[Read More]
Losing My Religion
I’ve started back on the dating sites again, much to my chagrin. I had met someone very special in October, and it was revolutionary for me. He had many of the things that I was looking for, but sadly, it came to an end, and I am still mourning its death. I thought at my…[Read More]
FAQ’s on dating
The #1 question is “What do I do after the first date?” My answer is generally, how did you feel about the first date? How did you leave the first date? It’s always a good idea to me, to tell the person at the end of the date that you enjoyed their company or, tell…[Read More]
Why do we keep making the same mistakes over and over?
By: Lori Mendelsohn www.smartfunnysingle and Jessica Aponte www.bluntlymatching.com and www.bluntlycoaching.com As professional matchmakers, it’s uncanny how we both see people from all walks of life, socio-economic groups and cities having the same challenges. We all want love, yet, we are neophytes when it comes to understanding the opposite sex. Every single person who we…[Read More]
Finding Happiness After My Divorce
I’ve been on the road to self-recovery and self-discovery for the last three years. I went through a very dark time, some days to the point where I questioned if I was on the right path. There was a constant that kept gnawing at me. It was being happy and being positive and not…[Read More]
Working Past Your Fear
I understand what an exceptional time this is right now. So many of us are struggling with the feelings of not living life as it was, and being oh, so mindful of what we do, how we do it and washing our hands above it all. Many of us simply don’t know what to do….[Read More]
5 Tips to help you find love
Do you believe there is a lack of good men or women out there? I can tell you that I used to feel that way, and then I met the man of a lifetime. And yes, during a pandemic. Do you believe that you won’t be able to find someone during COVID 19? HOGWASH! Men…[Read More]